March 15, 2013

• Putting my defenses up, cuz i don’t wanna fall in love

  

  Be thankful for hard times in your life. Try not to look at them as bad things, but as opportunities to grow and learn.
  

  

  It’s good being strong, but it sucks too when people know that you are strong and they think that it is okay to hurt you

  

  Have you ever decided to go down one road, but keep turning your head back and wonder if this was a mistake? If all of this wasn’t worth the pain and that the other road probably would’ve been much easier? I do. Everyday 

  

  I think best friends are the ones who’ve been through what you’ve been through. They understand where you’re coming from & where you’re going. It’s always a challenge to stick by a friend who’s making choices we don’t agree with & are sometimes even dangerous, but it’s at these times that are best friends need us the most

  

  We think we need so many useless things, when all we really need is time to breathe

  

  What’s worse than wanting something you can’t have? It’s not knowing what you want. Wishing on all the stars in the sky for the answers to your questions, for something to believe in… someone to hold. Having absolutely no control over yourself, being caught up in a place you wish you were miles away from. Being stuck somewhere between the past and the future, nowhere near where you should be – in the present. Stuck in yesterdays and tomorrows, so far from home, far from everything you know and love. The uncertainty could just tear you to bits

  

  There’s no point in holding on to something that will never be yours. That’s why today, I’m letting you go

  

  You make up excuses for why he never comes around. And I know he’s going to show up saying he misses you, but honestly who’s fault is that? Your address is the same and your phone numbers haven’t changed. There’s just no excuse for it this time

  

  Stop falling in love with everything that lets you down

  

  When the day comes that you don’t cross my mind, and I finally do forget you for good, please don’t remember me

  

  Every now and then, those three little words slip out. No, not “I love you.” And no, not “I hate you.” But I miss you. And for an instant, I can’t stand myself. Because I know you never thought about me half as much as I thought about you. Because I can’t stop thinking about you. I can’t get you out of my head – from under my skin

  

  Three months ago, if you asked me, I would have told you that if you really loved someone, you’d let them go. But now I look at you, and I dream about you, and I see that I’ve been wrong. If you really love someone, I think you have to take them back

  

  If we forgive others, we free our minds to dwell on better and brighter things. And we free our hearts to feel the love we’re made to instead of the rage we create

  

  The problem with acting out on your insecurities and pushing people away is that you aren’t allowing them to have their own insecurities. If you push people away, they are going to think you don’t want them there. We are all human and we all need a little trust, just because

  

  It’s completely impossible to find a guy who won’t hurt you. So instead, go for the guy who will make the pain worthwhile

  

  The worst feeling is when someone makes you feel special, then suddenly leaves you hanging, and you have to act like you don’t care at all

  

  Be thankful for every heartbreak, for they were planned. They come into your life just to reveal another layer of yourself to you, and then leave. Their purpose is to shake you up, tear apart your ego a little bit, show you your obstacles and addictions, break your heart open so new light can get in, make you so desperate and out of control that you have to transform your life. And you do

  

  “You can do better. You deserve so much more.” In reality, you’re right. But sometimes when you love, you love the person for who they are despite what they’ve done wrong to you. That’s what love does to you. It’s not about who you deserve, it’s about who you want, who you need, and who you love

  

  Pretending to be friends with the one you love is like breathing underwater. You can’t hold it too long cause if you do, you won’t make it alive

  

  It’s a cycle. You smile at me. You text me. You flirt with me. You make me fall for you in a matter of days. Then, you’re gone. You act like an ass to me. You won’t talk to me, answer my texts or even look me in the eye. So I give up. I move on. Or so I think, until that cycle happens all over again

  

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