April 2, 2013

• She’s like cold coffee in the morning

  

  It’s not like it’s the end of the world. Things will get better for you I promise. Don’t doubt yourself. Go for the things that make you happy and leave behind the things that don’t.

  

  I vow to help you love life. To always hold you with tenderness and to have the patience that love demands. To speak when words are needed and to share the silence when they are not. To live within the warmth of your heart and always call it home. 

  

  That night we talked, we talked about life, about our times together. Maybe we aren’t the same two kids we once were, but some things never change. Some things last, and even though I didn’t know what was going to happen to us, or where we were going, I just knew I couldn’t let you out of my life.

  

  When you start to see people change, you start to wonder if they were like this in the beginning, and if you just never noticed it. But don’t forget that you once loved who they were before. Don’t take it out on them for changing, because nobody stays the same. We all grow, and we all change.

  

  Not every girl wants to be in a relationship. Some just want good company, a guy to vibe with, converse with and laugh with. Not in a rush, start off simple, and let the rest find itself. Having someone to talk to and feeling comfortable around them is beautiful, and it’s a good feeling.

  

  I hope that in this year to come, you make mistakes. because if you are making mistakes then you are making new things, trying new things, learning, living, pushing yourself, changing yourself, changing your world. You’re doing things you’ve never done before, and more importantly, you’re doing something. Don’t freeze, don’t stop, don’t worry that it isn’t good enough, or it isn’t perfect, or whatever it is, art or love, or work, or family, or life. Whatever it is you’re scared of doing, do it. Make your mistakes, next year and forever

  

  Unless it’s mad, passionate, extraordinary love it is a waste of time. There are too many mediocre things in life; love should not be one of them.

  

  I know what it’s like to be so mad, you go into this blind rage and don’t even remember what you said or did. I know what it’s like to be so heartbroken, you can’t even look at yourself in the mirror without bursting into tears. I know what it’s like to have so many bad things happen to you,you start to lose faith in everything. However, I also know times of pure joy and happiness. And if I can just keep my mind set on those, I know I’ll make it through all of the hard times. And maybe, just maybe, I’ll be able to find the faith I thought I had lost forever.

  

  We all do things we desperately wish we could undo. Those regrets just become part of who we are, along with everything else. To spend time trying to change that, well, it’s like chasing clouds

  

  No relationship is perfect, ever. There are always some ways you have to bend, to compromise, to give something up in order to gain something greater… The love we have for each other is bigger than these small differences. And that’s the key. It’s like a big pie chart, and the love in a relationship has to be the biggest piece. Love can make up for a lot.

  

  Everyone is in such a hurry. People haven’t found meaning in their lives, so they’re running around all the time looking for it. They think the next car, the next house, the next job. Then they find those things are empty, too, and they keep running. Once you start running, it’s hard to slow yourself down

  

  Don’t be afraid if things seem difficult in the beginning. That’s only the initial impression. The important thing is not to retreat; you have to master yourself

  

  I have to ask you a question. It’s a good one so think about it. If two people love each other, but they just can’t seem to get it together, when do you get to that point of enough is enough?

  

  So you want to be happy? Then stop letting the smallest things ruin your whole entire day. If you’re bored with your daily routine, do something unexpected. Stop complaining about how alone you are when you’re surrounded by people who actually care about you. Forget all the drama and let go of all the grudges you’ve been holding. Take a risk for once. Let yourself be happy, because you deserve it

  

  I’m not giving up, I’m simply doing what’s best for me and that’s not being a part of your life anymore

  

  You were nothing but an asshole. You were rude and self-absorbed. And because of that, I’m done. I thought I ruined this, I thought I wasn’t good enough,  that you destroyed me. That I missed out. But to be honest, you ruined everything, you always ruin everything. And you will never ever get the satisfaction of knowing that you destroyed me, because you didn’t. I’m stronger now because of this, I’m not stronger because of you. I’m stronger because of what I did. And kid, fuck you. You missed out.

  

  And the main thing I learned? If you aren’t willing to put up with a little pain, you won’t go far.

  

  ou broke my heart, and you acted like it was somehow my fault. My misunderstanding. I was too in love with you to ever be mad at you. So I just punished myself.

  

  Hey you, yes, you. Stop being unhappy with yourself. You are perfect. Stop wishing you looked like someone else or wishing people liked you as much as they like someone else. Stop trying to get attention from those who hurt you. Stop hating your body, your face, your personality, your quirks. Love them. Without those things, you wouldn’t be you, and why would you want to be anyone else? Be confident with who you are. Smile, it’ll draw people in. If anyone hates on you because you are happy with yourself, then you stick your middle finger in the air and say, “Screw it. My happiness will not depend on others anymore. I’m happy because I love who I am. I love my flaws. I love my imperfections. They make me me and me is pretty amazing

  

  Everyone has a chance to make things right. It’s all just a matter of seeing the opportunities as they come

  

  “You really loved him, didn’t you?” A simple psychological question. Not a single name was mentioned. But suddenly, someone came into your mind as you read it.

  

  Imagine a future moment in your life where everything’s perfect.. you know, the greatest moment of your life and you get to experience it with one person.. who’s standing next to you?

  

  You don’t have to wait for someone to treat you badly repeatedly. All it takes is once, and if they get away with it that once, if they know they can treat you like that, then it sets the pattern for the future. 

  

  Sometimes you just need to be alone. Sometimes not even your best friend needs to know. Sometimes you need to put up the walls so you can examine yourself in the peace and quiet. Sometimes the loud sounds need to fade away, leaving only the silence and you.

  

  I didn’t walk away because I fell out of love. I left because I was tired of fooling myself into thinking that this was anything like love.

  

  And I felt I was on fire with the things i could have told you. I guess I just assumed that you eventually would ask. And I wouldn’t have to bring up my so badly broken heart. And all those months I just wanted to sleep, and though spring, it did come slowly. I guess it did its part –My heart has thawed and continues to beat.

  

  The best thing you can do right now is wait. I’m going through some really hard times right now, and I’m not dealing with things very well. But I promise that if you’ll be there for me, it will all be worth it in the end.

  

  I can choose to let it define me, confine me, refine me, outshine me, or I can choose to move the fuck on and leave it behind me.

  

  He had proven to me , without a doubt , that he didn’t need me & if it was the last thing I ever did , I was going to prove to him , without a doubt , that I didn’t need him either

  

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